Sometimes you can't be there for people, when you really really want to.

That sucks huh.

And it's because they, the one who is needing help or advice or a shoulder to lean on, is the one not letting you be there for them.

So you just have to wait, and that sucks too.

And you just know they are not coming to you for anything, unless the pain gets bad enough. And that's the last thing you want, for them to hurt like that. But at the same time the thought of them being close to you again is wonderful.


And so you're torn.